Saturday, August 23, 2008

Women Crimes: A Global Malaise


The young Afghan girl sits in the center of the room, weeping. Using her hand and her blue scarf to hide her face, she recounts how she was brutally raped by five gunmen.


The girl's tragic case is one of many in war-torn Afghanistan, activists say.... "This is just an example among thousands of other cases," says Shaima, a member of the Revolutionary Association of the Women of Afghanistan. "The rest go unnoticed by the media." Shaima is not her real name; she uses it to protect her identity. RAWA members themselves have often been targeted for raising taboo issues in a culture in which women and children are often treated as second-class citizens. "Women and girls, especially young girls, are the most unprotected people of Afghanistan. They are raped, kidnapped and murdered," Shaima says. Just last week, a 3-year-old girl was kidnapped and raped by unidentified men, a government official confirms. The toddler was later released and, the official says, is recovering. "Rapists are roaming around with impunity," Shaima says, turning her attention to a man -- said to be the son of a powerful official -- who is accused of raping 22 girls in the northern province of Sar-I-Pul.... In March, the Afghan Independent Human Rights Commission said that deteriorating security in large parts of the country, a growing culture of criminal impunity, weak law enforcement institutions, poverty and other factors had contributed to increasing violence against women, such as rape and torture. The commission also said that Afghan girls are often forced into marriages against their will.


Radhika Coomaraswamy, the U.N. special representative for children in armed conflict, plans to release a report in October on the state of Afghan children.... "In many cases of violence against children, there is a sense of impunity. People continue to violate children's rights without any sense of feeling that they will be held accountable," Coomaraswamy said. She found that sexual violence against young boys is also a problem. In what is known as "bacha-bazi," or "child's play," boys are forced to dress in female attire, dance and perform sexual acts. "I can't think of any country in the world in which children suffer more than in Afghanistan," Coomaraswamy says. "In all our meetings with children, it takes a lot of time to make them smile. That to me shows that there is not happiness in their hearts."


Courtesy: CNN.COM

Sunday, August 17, 2008

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Friday, August 15, 2008

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Wednesday, September 27, 2006

Mera Naam Joker Varun..Yeh hai meri kahaani..kuch daastan puranee..!!

Feeling really pathetic to write this post..but then its an essential part of self-therapy...giving your thoughts freedom rather than keeping it locked in some obscure part of the heart..!!!

Hope most of u'll must have seen " Mera Naam Joker "...n maybe laughed kya dikha rahe hai yaar...such things dont happen..but life always has an uncanny knack of having the "final say".. So presenting forward my " Mera Naam Joker Varun" ( I have its copyrights so expecting royalty if it ever gets made into a movie n the main role also..!!)

My Simi Garewal was not a teacher....she was a student just like me...yeah the gal who's made a comeback in my already well-documented dreams...!! She was like this paree who had descended on the Black Earth...just pristine..fearing that she would break if someone touched her. I soo vividly remember seeing her once in a pink frilly frock n that moment I knew Varun Beta u've caught the incredilbly dangerous disease which has no cure...."Lavaria".!!! That made my life really worthwile in childhood days...those small battles won n lost in chasing her..still remember the ecstacy felt when she chose to sit nxt to me refusing my bitter arch rival...That day I was soooo happy that out of nowhere I started jumping n hi5'ing myself..ala Amir in Jo Jeeta Wohi Sikander...Experienced the best 3-4 yrs of my life with her memories..!! But then kabhi khushi toh kabhi gumm...a serious misunderstanding let to an indirect proposal ( 7th standard yeah..I dont leave things much to fate ..!!) n that was it...End of Story..Thankfully no manoj Kumar around atleast of what I know..!!

Then My "Russian Athlete" was this college friend..who was always this nice helpful smiling friend..!! Unfortunately it ended with no one smiling..!! This actaully brought in touch to me my this extremely dark side of my personality..a narcisstic one..! n neva had I thought one can turn so manipulative as I had done with that sweet gal...things ended as they started with a freakish proposal on yahoo chat ( hehe..now who shall belive that..not even me..!!) n lotsa emotional blackmailing n mind games finally ending in a nasty fight..!!! End of Part 2..!!!

Now comes part 3 which came into conclusion yesterday .....the " Vyjanthimala" with whom Raj Kapoor really fell for among all 3...!!! My "Vyjanthimala" was no actress using me for some personal gain of her's...she's perhaps the only only person in the world who realises when I mask my emotions....Ive become superdude in that..but got caught yday..!! Well what to say abt Part 3..usual stuff like meeting in n off during classes...then a long break n then meeting again....finally came to a amicable conclusion yday which I hope has satisfied both parties..because this is one friendship which I think shall last till the grave...!! If you have to learn how to "handle" maniacs...this gal is the one for you...patience, understanding n control over words Ive rarely come across..n coming from thats some compliment as I used to think I had all those a few days ago..!!!

So thats the end of my "mera naam joker"..n now finally the slate's clean n I can move on..!!!

Moral of story for gals : Beware of this guy as soon as he gets personal;if ur committed then plzz do tell him so that he shall back off...!!

So what for me now....would there be a Juhi Chawla waiting for me to guide her as in "Kabhi Haan Kabhi Naa" ( i hope so..!!) or wud there be another post...Mera Naam Joker Varun Dwitiya ....sequels ka zamaana hai bhai...!!! Well I dont know thats something only the future beholds for me...!!

Again sincere apologies to all those whom Ive done harm intentionally..!!!

Ciao..

Varun

Wednesday, September 20, 2006

Do feelings ever die ??!!!!

Hi guys...very sorry to post after such a long time...!!!! Spending more time nowadays pacifying gals on fone rather than blogging..so thought of writing one which should clarify my position to one n all..!!!

Tday again I am writing this blog becoz I saw a dream again yday night and again I remember every detail of it..!!! It's kind of continuation of the dream I earlier had with my childhood crush..!! But as I'm maturing rapidly nowadays,so are my dreams..so this dream was not all abt mush n laughter n good times..but more of me showing her how much she had hurt me...n asking relevant questions in the direction of our "relationship"..!! I vividly remember her asking me " So u dont feel anything about me..everythinng's dead ??" in an accusing tone...n I just looked her in her eyes n said " Yes I remember the hurt u cause me each day n each night for the whole of my life"..n then she started sobbing ( not begging for forgiveness..so all FCP's keep the lid shut..FCP: Female Chauvinist pigess if there's any )...n then tears start rolling out of my eyes too..exactly like SRK's in KANK..in my dreams my Adam's apple too starts bobbing up n downn..!!!!

So comes to my question to u'll :

"Do feelings stay forever or do they die with time ...???"

This gal has caused me nothing but hurt , pain n rejection ( dont want to confuse u'll with the good times which I remember..but a neutral wud agree with me when I say she caused me only pain..!!) I try my best to not take along memories of her in all my relationships...but then why does she come in my dreams every month atleast once like a bin bulaaye mehmaan ??

Realistically I've stopped caring a rat's a@# for her but in my dreams I get all mushy n cozy n senti...why this absolute divide in dreams n reality ?? If anyone of u'll have an answer..plzz..I'll be glad to solve this mystery..!!!

Aur likhoonga nxt month when she comes again..!! hope to write my views on live-in relationships n pre-marital sex soon maybe tomm itself..!!

Aur kya..India ne dil khush kar diya..for a change our bowlers ne windies ko dho daala..!!

Also had the impression that romance had died out in our country replaced by this fake "I have it all..I dont need a man..I dont need to be vulnerable" kinda women...!!! But looks like I was wrong..there are still a few left..n Ive been lucky to meet one..though not sure whether as usual Im late or just in time..anyways the future shall reveal that...!!

Chalo enuff of controversy in one blog..!!!

Hasta la vista..!!!!

Sunday, August 27, 2006

What is love..???

Hola amigos y amigas..!!

n to the secret admirer, sorry for keeping u waiting a bit..!! yeah I know finally a blog after 10 days..!! yeah dint find any topic interesting enuff to invigorate my passion...until yday I had a chat with an interesting person..!! So decide to post my feelings about something as universal as love..!!!

Hmm..What is love...( To all Chandler'ites, dont reply "Baby dont hurt me..!!" ) Yeah to the people who know me well cud taunt....what does this lad who's gone thru 4 painful relationships and 2 proposal rejections know abt love..!!! To them, surprisingly a lot..!!! Simply put, love is the most "pure" emotion there can ever be in this world..!!! Love is what made munnabhai a "doctor" and maybe a "gandhiji" on Sept 1st..no offence meant..!! Love is what made anil kapoor a rapist in "prem pratigya" turn into a model husband..!! Love is what made the British PM (not Tony Blair..he's too boring)..Hugh Grant marry a lowly member of staff n what brought together a estonian and a brit writer together in Love Actually.. my favourite movie till date..!! Love transcends boundaries....its what brought a Indian gal from Thane and a Pakistani lad from karachi together..well nearly apart from the BSF intervention..!!! Love is soemthing which everyone feels irrespective of age,caste,sex or color..!!! Its evident in a father's eyes on seeing his baby wrapping his fingers around his own...truly magical..!!! Its evident in a woman's eyes on seeing her love on one knee asking her to marry him in a romantic restaurante..(something I try always but in vain)..!!! Its evident in a daughter's eyes when her father kisses her for standing 1st in class...n I can go on n on...!!!

But its not all mushy stuff that Im gonna talk here..we all know n dig that.. I shall try to explre something darker here..!!

Is love given enough credit in our country ?

In our country, marriage is considered to be the most holiest relationship and even I conform to that and belive in this great institution...!! But does love transcend marriage or is it the other way around..??!!! Unfortunately most times its the other way round.....as I am a very "filmy" guy..lemme compare 2 movies....2 gr8 movies which I thoroughly enjoyed n made by the 2 finest directors we have in our country...!!

Kabhi Alvida Na Kehnaa and Hum Dil de chuke sanam...!!!

Talking abt the latter,we find that though Aish is in love with Sallu, she marries ajay against her wishes and then "falls in love again" with her husband and dumps poor sallu (hmm reel-life or real life..??) A classic example of "love after marriage"..!!
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KANK is the exact opposite....couples get married n then find that they actually do not love each other at all...!!! thats "marriage after falling in love"...!!!

Now,I would not make the mistake of commenting which is good or bad...dont want some party coming up n burning my house..!! I just want people to see the merit and demerits of both..!!

I feel it all burns down to conditioning.....aren't we taught right from childhood..that marriage is the ultimate sanctimonous institute and its paap to fall in love before that..??? Dont our parents hint that "stay away from boys..theyre not good"..maybe I shall say the same to my daughter..hope not though..!!! Dont parents get worried on seeing their teenage daughter spend more time outside the house n in house only chatting online...?? The answer is yes..!! We all have been conditioned to "stay clean" before marriage without any daag or dhabba in our lives..!! We are too dictated by what the society says and the "moral police brigade"..!! Well, if that was the case earlier then, neither Einstein nor Socrates would have been the people they are today..sorry were yday...!!! Isnt it time to open our eyes just a little and try out more in life rather than just criticising the USA for its "open culture" and for bringing westernism to India..thank God MTV, Dr Phil n Oprah..else I wudnt write this articles....!!!

If some of u'll have a say/take on this do reply at varun.alagati@wipro.com if the response is good I shall post the sequel...!!

Till then hasta la vista..!!!

Tuesday, August 15, 2006

KANK rockss...!!!!!

Hmm...1st of all happy Independence day for all...!! Jai Hind..be careful tday...dont go out in malls n all n keep reading my blog..!!!
This weekend I saw 2 gr8 movies...KANK n Crash....both left me speechless though with varyin degrees..!!!

1st KANK.....congrats to karan for making a mature love story for a change...!!! the movie's excellent..though a bit loooong....but rani's simplyyyy awsomeeeee....!!! The way she expresses the deep pain through her brown misty eyes is simply surreal...!!! n makes u wanna go inside the screen and hug her deeply..!!!

Shahrukh for a change is not given a central role and nicely underplays his part...!!! Priety is good n abhishek..hmm Im too jealous to say anything good abt him..!!! Amitabh rocks..n Kajol's haute..!!!

Shall write abt the "inner conflict" in detail later..watch out for that blog...wud shock a lot of ppl who claim to know me in n out..( there arent any..hehehe..) Also this anonymous fan of the blog....wanted to thank u..ur the reason this blog is active..keep up the compliments...!!!

Adiosssssssss...!@!!!!!!!!